Monday 28 October 2013

Links I Love

2. 10 things not to say at work. (refinery29.com)
3. How to throw a cocktail party in under an hour. (dominomag.com)
4. A healthy snack option I can't wait to try. (ruemag.com)
5. Obsessed with these beautiful food collages. (julieskitchen.me)
6. Workout habits you should drop now - I'm totally guilty of the elliptical. (news.health.com)
7. How fun are these varsity inspired sweatshirts {I'd go for NY}. (urbanoutfitters.com)
8. After posting this a few weeks back, I found this article on wine labels to be quite fitting. (npr.org)
9. Adding this ear cuff DIY to my fall to-do list. (honestlywtf.com)

Loving Right Now


Friday 25 October 2013

Trick-or-Treats

Since Halloween is my favorite holiday, I make sure that the month of October is filled with thematic sweets that embrace the flavors of fall {everyone knows that calories don't count this time of year} Here are a few of the things I've made in the past that I plan on recreating this season. 

Homemade Peanut Butter Cups
Chocolate Truffles
Classic Apple Pie
Deep-Dish Pumpkin Meringue Pie
Caramel Apples
Red Velvet Swirl Brownies
Homemade Oreos
Pumpkin Bread Pudding

Quotes On Notes






Last week I received a sweet card from a friend just because. It brought me back to childhood, when getting something in the mail was such a thrill (even if it was just my super cool subscription to Highlights Magazine). But the gesture meant so much that I decided to create a few cards of my own that I can send to friends whenever I'm feeling spontaneous. I kept them simple by using some of my favorite quotes (from Sex and the CityWhen Harry Met Sally, and Mean Girls) in glittery letters with matching lined envelopes.





Apple Cinnamon Pancakes




Wednesday 23 October 2013

Five Things

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{Weeknights spent with a little whisky and some insanely funny anecdotes}

There are few things more disappointing than when a fun plan goes sideways. This past weekend we made plans to attend a spooky haunted house, only to have a few people cancel at the last minute. Thankfully, we had fun just staying in and making our own haunted house, sharing scary stories, playing silly games, {with beverages included naturally}. It was a simple reminder that even when the best plans don't always turn out the way you expect, there's often a silver lining. Hope you had a great weekend!

Tuesday 22 October 2013

Career 101: Interviews


1. Prepare ahead of time. There are two areas to focus on when you're preparing for an interview: 1) company research and 2) your online profile. We live in a world of information overload, where almost everything you want to know about a company or person is a few clicks away. This access is very beneficial, but it also has some risk. Before your first interview {whether by phone or in-person} find out as much information that you can about the company, the person or people with whom you'll be interviewing and the available position. This knowledge not only shows your commitment and proactive nature, but will also help you ask informed questions. Secondly, if you have public social profiles, you want to make sure there is nothing posted or shared that could cast an unfavorable light on your professional appearance. The same way we all "stalk" random friends and acquaintances, companies definitely use the same tools to get a sense of who you are, so be smart.

2. Dress for success. There's no such thing as a universal uniform that works for every interview. The most important thing is to dress appropriately for the environment. If you're in more of a traditional/conservative industry, it goes without saying that you should probably be in some sort of suit, which can be personalized with a statement necklace or bright bag. If you're interviewing at a creative agency, you may risk looking stuffy if you're in such a formal outfit. If you don't know the protocol for the typical office attire, call ahead and ask either the person with whom you're interviewing or the receptionist. When in doubt, a printed blouse tucked into a pencil skirt with sensible pumps is a safe bet.
3. Be timely. Obviously you're going to want to show up on time for your interview, but it's crucial to arrive even earlier than needed. That way, you not only accommodate for things like traffic, parking, overcrowded elevators and finding the exact location, but it will give you a few moments to collect yourself before you begin. 
4. What to bring. A sleek portfolio should hold everything, including resumes {print them on high quality paper and always bring more than you think you'll need}, a pad of paper, and a pen. You'll want to take notes about discussion points during the interview, but don't treat the meeting like a classroom, scribbling down everything without focusing on the person in front of you.
5. Establish a give and take. Whenever someone offers you something at the beginning of a meeting, even if it's as simple as a cup of water, accept it. It immediately sets the stage that your relationship is that of a give and take and not just one-sided. This also applies to how the conversation should flow during the interview. You want to try and create a natural back-and-forth during your meeting and to remember that you're also there to interview your potential employer, to find out if the company and the people that work there are the right fit for you.
6. Physicality. You know that saying about faking confidence {my mantra in middle school} until it comes naturally? The same applies here. From the minute you meet your interviewer, stand straight with your shoulders back and head held high. A firm handshake and good eye contact makes a strong first impression and bad habits {like playing with your hair, fidgeting, chewing gum} should be avoided.
7. Negotiating. Discussing money is rarely a comfortable experience, but when it comes to your job you need be slightly bold with your requests. Always ask for the top of the salary range, regardless of whether you think you have enough experience. If you don't know the range, simply ask. Conversely, if an employer asks how much you want to make, don't provide a figure but convey you want to make "the highest part of the salary range for the position." By throwing out a figure, you could potentially be selling yourself short, so try to avoid being locked down to a number until it's necessary. If an employer is set on a specific figure and really wants to bring you on, try establishing an accelerated review period {i.e. 6-8 months} where the opportunity for a raise or future bonus is available. You'll have to prove you're worth the investment, but showing confidence in your initial negotiations establishes the tone for future salary conversations.
8. Sell yourself. One of the most important things at the end of an interview is to be forward. Take a few moments to share why you'd be a valuable asset to the team {use some specific examples} and then verbalize that you're actually interested in the position. Even if you're not 100% sold on the job and whether it's a good fit, aim to get an offer. That way, you'll be better equipped at making a decision once the job responsibilities and salary have been clearly defined. And while this last tip might seem rather aggressive, ask if there are any reasons why you might not be a good fit for the job. It shows that you're assertive and will also give you a good idea about the likelihood of you getting an offer. Once you've left the office, send a thank you email {keep it no longer than 4-5 sentences}and follow it with a hand-written note reiterating the same points.

Crave or Save

My bag collection is extensive, though the one item that's missing is a basic black bag. It seems like that would be the obvious choice if I were to have but one purse, though I've found most options out there are not quite right. They're either too large/small/embellished/plain/fill-in-the-blank. I've been eyeing this bag for a while though, by The Row, and it's as close to perfect as I've seen. It's sleek, minimal, and an ideal size that can transition from day to night. But for a fraction of the cost, and a remarkably similar look, J.Crew's Claremont Purse {now 25% off} is a more affordable option that's just as classically cool

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Thursday 17 October 2013

Links I Love

2. Turn a tree stump into a side table. (apairandasparediy.com)
3. Under eye correction tips for sleepless nights. (thebeautydepartment.com)
5. How cute are these ghost donut holes for Halloween? (sayyestohoboken.com)
6. Housing density in Hong Kong that's surprisingly beautiful. (hongwrong.com)
7. I've been on the hunt for candle sticks and adore the simplicity of these. (shopterrain.com)
9. Things you should splurge on at the market. (thekitchn.com)